Are You Still Doing Things You Don’t Have To?
When you start thinking about to enjoy retirement, you’re probably focusing on what to start doing—travel more, pick up hobbies, spend time with family.
But just as important is knowing what to stop doing in retirement.
Why? Because the habits that served you during your working years might now be holding you back. If retirement is about freedom, then letting go is part of the journey.
Here are 5 things to consider retiring from—starting now.
1. Stop Feeling Guilty for Resting
You don’t have to earn every nap.
One of the biggest retirement mistakes I see? Clients who feel bad for slowing down. But rest isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. After decades of showing up for work, family, and your community, it’s okay to pause. You’ve already earned this.
Pro tip: Enjoy a day with no schedule and no guilt.
2. Stop Managing Everything Yourself
Just because you can do it doesn’t mean you should.
You might be holding on to chores and responsibilities out of habit—or pride. But if you have the financial means to hire help, this is the time. Free up your time for what actually brings joy.
Whether it’s yardwork, tax prep, or grocery delivery, outsourcing is a lifestyle tip more retirees should embrace.
3. Stop Saying Yes to Things That Drain You
Retirement is the perfect time to set boundaries.
Saying yes to every request—especially out of guilt or habit—leaves you drained. Whether it’s a committee, a volunteer role, or family obligations, make space for what energizes you.
Not everything requires your time.
4. Stop Checking the Market Every Day
This one’s tough for many, but it’s so important: Let your financial advisor do the worrying.
If you have a solid retirement plan, you don’t need to monitor the market daily. It can create unnecessary anxiety and tempt you to make reactive decisions.
Instead of refreshing stock tickers, refresh your life: go on a walk, call a friend, revisit your goals.
5. Stop Postponing Joy
One of the most important retirement lifestyle tips? Don’t wait.
You don’t need a milestone birthday or perfect timing to enjoy your money and your time. Book the trip. Sign up for the art class. Build the deck. Invite your grandkids for a sleepover. Your best memories won’t wait for perfect conditions.
🎯 Final Thought: Letting Go Makes Space for More
Want to know how to enjoy retirement more?
It starts by asking: “What can I stop doing?”
Give yourself permission to release the habits, expectations, and roles that no longer fit. What’s left might surprise you: more peace, more time, more joy.